Confessions of a “New” homeschooling mom

Confessions of a “New” homeschooling mom

homeschool-journey Allow me to introduce myself.  My name is Lindsey Clair and I am a happily married (12 years to my best friend) mother of three girls.  I am about to embark on a journey and chapter in my life which greatly includes my children.  What journey could it possibly be? You’ve guessed it,  homeschooling!  If you would have told me this a few years ago I would have laughed in your face but all this became real to me towards the beginning/middle of this last 2010-2011 school year.  My oldest daughter just completed her final year at a local public school and has been there the past three years.  It was a great experience and I have absolutely nothing negative to say about it but I just felt a tug towards home education and my girls seem to be on board the decision as well.

Sweet pea will be starting third grade (8), cupcake will be starting Kindergarten (5), and jelly bean well, (These are our daughters nicknames in case you are wondering, we aren’t weirdos, I promise lol) she’s our little 2 year old toddler so you get the idea where we are at with that stage of development.  Yes, we are currently potty training and it has been a wonderful bed of roses. HA! Yeah in my dreams, right?  No, it’s been a challenge but I am hoping, just hoping and believing she will be fully potty trained before the start of the school year.  I guess this will be one of my major challenges as a home educator. I  would rather not chase around a toddler but I am brain storming ideas throughout the day to keep jelly bean occupied all the while learning.  Thankfully, being an early childhood educator this task will become easy, did I just say easy?  Okay, it will again be a challenge but hey, they are only so little once I would hate to rush this stage of development. We will all just roll with the punches so to speak.

As a new homeschooling mom I can honestly say in the beginning I went through a brief, very brief, honeymoon phase.  I was super excited and on top of the world knowing I would be my daughters teacher.  But, then it hit me.  Wait a minute! Can I really do this? Can I really teach my child at home?  Apprehension started sinking my feelings of joy then eventually anxiety took over and then I just felt completely overwhelmed.  What was I to do?  With whom should I talk to?  It was then I started researching high and low everything Michigan had to offer as far as homeschooling goes.  I fortunately found a wonderful homeschool fellowship in Northville, Ward Homeschool Fellowship.  It was there I was greeted very warmly and all my worries and fears were completely gone, well for that time being.  Shortly after joining the group and joining on with HSLDA, I started realizing that it was all going to be okay.  Why?  Every homeschooling family is different and what may work for one may not work for the other.  This statement completely helped me put things into perspective on what it actually means to”Home school.”

I am still a little apprehensive here and there because our journey begins the last week of August, (kind of a preview/practice week) and then full swing after Labor Day.  I am only doing what I know I can do as far as schedules and keeping things in order.  Sweet pea will be doing A Beka and cup cake will be doing a “Learn at Home“series by Houghton Mifflin Harcourt.  I realize that these curriculums may not work for them and I may end up switching completely.  I was told it will take some working with different ideas etc. until I fully know what will work for my children.  I am totally fine with that.  My main goal is to just stay relaxed and not get all stressed out about it.  Breathe in, Breathe out!

What about you?  Are you a new homeschooling mom?  What feelings have you experienced?  I would love to hear from you.  Stick around on my new journey as a homeschooling mom.  I am sure it will be quite a ride but I can’t wait to share withyou the things I have learned.  If you are a seasoned homeschooling mom or dad, I would love to hear from you as well. Any advice is always valued, especially since I still have no clue how this is going to work for my family.  Hey, sometimes it’s fun not knowing right?  Surprises in life make life very interesting!  Happy Homeschooling!

*I just wanted to say a big thank you to Christina for allowing me the opportunity to share my journey with all of you.  I look forward to meeting new families and creating new friendships along the way! 

Lindsey Clair

Lindsey Clair is a homeschooling mother of three daughters. She is married to her best friend Ron where he is currently a Solutions Engagement Supervisor for the State of Michigan at UPS. Lindsey possesses a degree in Child Development and just completed her BS degree in business marketing with a social media concentration. She is currently a professional blogger and freelance writer for multiple sites and enjoys working from home while homeschooling her children. Lindsey is also a musician. She currently plays the piano and flute and sings. She was formerly the children's director at her parent's church as well as on the praise and worship team. Lindsey's hobbies include reading, shopping, blogging, and hanging out with family and friends.

3 thoughts on “Confessions of a “New” homeschooling mom

  1. Last year was our first year of homeschooling, and, after just one year, I can’t imagine NOT homeschooling my kids. I have four children, ages 7, 6, 3, and 2. My oldest daughter went to full-day kindergarten when she was five, and, once the year was up, we decided to homeschool. Like you, we didn’t have any bad experiences with public school. Homeschooling was something that appealed to us, and we decided to give it a shot. I’m so glad we did!

    Looking back on our first year, I can say that I learned as much as the kids did. I learned how to see when something wasn’t working, and that it’s completely OK (and best for everyone) to make changes if something’s not working. I learned that even when I’m not perfect, my kids miraculously manage to learn anyway. I learned that organization is key — the days when I had everything organized and ready to go (instead of searching for books and art supplies at the last minute) were more fulfilling for all of us. And I learned to love my crockpot 🙂

    Good luck! I’m so excited for you and your family.

  2. Hello, I think it’s great that you are homeschooling your children. I opted to getting a full-time job and sending mine to private. Had I been educated and adventurous enough, I would have been a homeschooling Mom, I most definitely can
    say, that this day and age, I would not send my children to public school. To much education in the wrong direction for me. I would like having my preference in teaching my children what is valuable to me. Thanks for allowing me to post this.

  3. I look forward to following your blog and reading about your journey! We have been homeschooling for almost 2 full years now… so I am by no means a veteran!

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